Nearly two years ago when our townhouse was for sale, I had some pretty specific requirements: Sell this to buy a
REAL house....with a yard the kids can run crazy in and I can build gardens and plant flowers wherever I want. This may seem like a standard wish or requirement for most people. BUT, not in a townhouse that is run by a homeowner's association that doesn't allow fences, personal children's playgrounds, or gardens. Really, no customization of any kind.
Period. When we were the standard DINKs (Double Income No Kids) in town, it was perfect. We spent most of our time working, playing sports in the city, and didn't want to spend any of our own time actually maintaining our property such as landscaping and snow removal. Again, it was perfect. But....as what normally happens when you have children, our perspective changed.
As soon as the twins were old enough to crawl and soon run, the exterior of my home became nearly as important as the inside of my home. Inside, we finished our basement and added a toy room. Outside, our hands were tied. There was a large common yard, but no personal space. Our daughter once even fell down a neighbor's window well. Yep, that was the straw that broke the camel's back. No privacy. No security. No safety. And again....no ability to plant a garden and customize anything we wanted. At one time in our lives, this was perfect - but by today, it wasn't for us anymore.
So luckily, we sold our townhouse and bought a 'real' house. You know, one with our own walls, a yard we and we alone were responsible for, and one in which we owned a yard as far as the eye could see....where we could do whatever we wanted! The first year we owned the home, we closed on it mid summer and didn't have a full growing season to take advantage of. Therefore, 2011 was decided on to be 'our year'.